Ch. 2 I'm not a regular mom, I'm a naked mom
I wanted to sit in the bathtub because my stomach was hurting. I left my husband & Hendrix in the living room & was alone in our bathroom for only a few minutes before I heard the familiar patter of running footsteps. *POOF* a little human appeared beside the bathtub & asked to get in. My husband entered the bathroom at that moment & tried to corral Hendrix back to the living room so I could be alone, but I stopped him. I did want be alone, but someday, this child will stop asking to get into the tub with me & I will grieve when that day comes. That day is not today.
I've recently learned there is a term for moms like me (& maybe you too) - "naked mom" - which refers to a mother who is comfortable being nude in front of her children during daily routines like showering, using the bathroom, changing, etc.
Aren't all moms naked moms?
Having grown up with a 'naked mom', I've spent the majority of my life thinking that children seeing their mother naked was the norm, until I received this comment a week ago from a random woman online:
Click here to see what bikini warranted this comment.
If this stranger was upset about my bikini, her head would spin if she knew that Hendrix sees me in my birthday suit! But as her comment continued to receive likes, I knew that this woman's beliefs were not hers alone.
Her comment brought me back to a conversation I had with my mother-in-law while I was pregnant with Hendrix. I remember it like it was yesterday, despite it being 5+ years ago. I was telling her about my glorious plan to breastfeed my son & I could see the judgement her eyes. She explained to me that she did not breastfeed either of her two boys because they were boys & how it was different for my mom to have breastfed me & my sister because my mom had girls.
Was this internet stranger upset merely because I wore a skimpy suit (my original thought) or was it specifically because it was in front of my son & it would be different if I had a daughter?
I have not responded to this stranger's comment, & I probably never will, but if I did, I would tell her two things:
1. There is nothing 'typical' about our home. Our son is autistic & requires constant supervision. Our interior doors have no locks & remain open all day until bedtime. If my husband isn’t home, Hendrix is coming to the bathroom with me. Privacy is not a priority in our home & I don’t foresee a near future where it will be.
2. My naked mom always used to say:
so keep your cunty comments to yourself & don’t worry about my mf bikini.
I will die on this hill that a mother should not have to move through her own home with modesty & that un-sexualized nudity inside the house is not only harmless but healthy.
& when the time comes that Hendrix wants to bathe alone, or doesn't need help getting dressed or doesn't require constant supervision, our son's privacy will be respected, but right now is not that time.
Naked moms, I see you & I get it.
Non-naked moms, I want to understand. If you have anything insightful or thought-provoking to add to this comment section, I would love to read it, even if I don't agree with it, but please remember to be kind.
Love always, Lin
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Girlie, you already knowwww.
Naked mom/breastfeeding mom/ love my boys with every bit of my heart- mom.
I adore you and admire you. Your love for Hendrix, Rob and family inspires me daily. Thankful to be in your circle and thankful to mom alongside you. Forever cheering you on 💃
Long Live Naked Moms!
I have never hidden nakedness nor have I exaggerated it. Nakedness is natural and no one should be ashamed. I also needed all my children, all 5- 3 girls and 2 boys. I recommend to the women or men that sexualize nursing or nudity in your own home to seek a deeper answer and ask yourself why do you feel that way….. and I’m sorry if you were shamed or sexualized or made to feel awkward for being natural. Nursing is THE BEST 1st food for our babies, it’s nature’s intention, it’s best for baby and momma for numerous reasons. If it was simply bc you couldn’t( inverted nipped or latch issues) I’m sorry you missed out on that bonding time.
Nudity and wearing bathing suits is normal in my home for the majority, as mine have gotten older I respect there choices and there does come a time you don’t need to be nude around for children, but as babies toddlers, even preschool age is acceptable in my book and to each their own. Don’t judge others or say anything unless a child is getting hurt.
One thing is certain, my children will never have body shame nor do they shame others and my sons do not have perverted views of women, young or older, bc they saw what a women looks like in many forms( pregnant, not, skimpy suit, 1piece, bra, etc.)- being natural and feeling confidant in your skin is your right! Keep on it mama! You’re doing a great job!🎉🌼❤️
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